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Grave Reflections

Thoughts, teachings, and musings regarding death, memorialization, cremation, and everything else to help enlighten, edify, and demystify the myths and misconceptions surrounding the inevitable.

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🔮 What Does Your Zodiac Sign Say About Your Ideal Afterlife?

Everyone has a dream afterlife. Some want clouds and harps. Others want to come back as a houseplant in a minimalist kitchen. But your zodiac sign? That says a lot about your cosmic vibe. Yes, let’s class up the astrology-afterlife fusion with a little more zest, but still keep it tasteful enough that no one’s grandma files a complaint—unless she’s a Scorpio, in which case she already has. Here’s what the stars predict your perfect forever looks like, based on absolutely zero science and a healthy disregard for subtlety.

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What Happens to a Body After Death?

Death is one of life’s most intimate and inevitable experiences. While no two journeys are the same, understanding what happens after death can bring peace to families facing one of life’s most difficult transitions.

At Martin Oaks Cemetery & Crematory, we are not just in the business of services—we are in the business of care. If you have questions—whether for yourself, a loved one, or just out of curiosity—we’re here to talk. There’s never a wrong time to ask.

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Honoring Heroes—

Every year, on the last Monday of May, we pause to observe Memorial Day—a sacred tradition of remembrance for the men and women who gave their lives in service to the United States of America. This day is not just marked on the calendar—it is etched into the earth beneath our feet and the stories that lie within it.

Let us take a moment to look back at the conflicts that have shaped our nation, and reflect on the lives lost—men and women alike—in defense of our shared freedom. Hopefully this list never grows.

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7 Things NOT to Say to Someone When a Loved One Dies

Losing a loved one hurts. Friends and family are compassionate and always willing to help but this isn’t something one does often and it’s hard to find the right thing to say sometimes. Words can either be a source of comfort or cause unintended pain. While most people mean well, certain phrases can come off as dismissive, hurtful, or just plain unhelpful. If you want to support someone who is grieving, here are seven things you should avoid saying—and what to say instead.

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Frozen Dead Guy Days

When it comes to commemorating the dearly departed, the little mountain town of Nederland, Colorado, has taken things to a whole new (and chilly) level. Meet the star of the show: Bredo Morstoel, affectionately known as “Grandpa Bredo,” who’s been cryogenically frozen in a Tuff Shed since the late 1980s. His icy posthumous adventure has inspired one of the quirkiest festivals in the U.S.: Frozen Dead Guy Days.

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How do YOU Honor Your Loved Ones Who Passed?

In the United States, traditions surrounding death and mourning are as diverse as the cultural backgrounds and religious beliefs of the people who observe them. These practices offer families ways to honor their loved ones, find closure, and support each other during a time of loss. While customs can differ widely from family to family, here are some of the most common ways people in the U.S. honor their loved ones after they pass away.

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5 Unique and Different Religious Funeral Ceremonies Most Common in Texas

In Texas, a state with rich cultural diversity, funeral rituals reflect various religious, cultural, and traditional practices. However, several funeral customs are particularly common across the state. There has been a lot of press regarding the increase in the non-affiliated but there will always be those who follow deeply held religious beliefs, especially regarding death and the afterlife. We honor them all at Martin Oaks Cemetery & Crematory.

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The Kübler-Ross Stages of Grief in Modern Times

The Kübler-Ross stages of grief provide a foundational lens through which to view loss, but they are by no means the final word on how humans process grief. Over time, new theories and critiques have emerged, highlighting the diversity and complexity of grief in the modern era. Whether we adhere to these stages or adopt newer models, the key lesson is that grief is not a problem to be solved, but an experience to be lived, however it unfolds for each person.

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What to do When there is Nowhere to Go

We may think our loved ones will have it all figured out when we pass, but do they really? What about the ashes of your grandparents sitting in eternal peace in the closet? Do your grandchildren really want them in their closet when it’s time to sort through your belongings? It may or may not surprise you that, in most cemeteries, ashes can be buried along other ashes or a full casket all in one grave.

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Talking to Children When Someone Dies

Let’s face it, death is a difficult subject for anyone to navigate. It’s hard for children to navigate everyday life never mind the complexities of grief. Children’s understanding of death varies greatly depending on their age, emotional maturity, and prior experiences. Here are some guidelines and strategies to help you approach this sensitive topic in a compassionate and supportive manner.

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Grief in Summer

The summer holidays can be particularly tough for those grieving a loss, but by acknowledging your feelings, honoring your loved one, setting boundaries, and seeking support, you can navigate this challenging season with compassion and care. Remember that it’s okay to find moments of joy amidst your sorrow and that healing is a journey that unfolds in its own time.

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Celebrating Excellence— 5 Amazing Women Shaping the Future of Funeral Service

Five influential American women that have broken barriers but also significantly shaped the landscape of funeral service. Their contributions highlight the diversity and richness of the funeral service profession. As we celebrate their achievements, we recognize the importance of continued support and empowerment for women in this essential and evolving industry.

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