Besides how to spell it correctly (no, there are no As in cemetery!) people should be aware that cemeteries hold deep historical, cultural, and emotional significance even if you don’t know anyone resting in one. Here are the top five things everyone should know about cemeteries—

In the United States, traditions surrounding death and mourning are as diverse as the cultural backgrounds and religious beliefs of the people who observe them. These practices offer families ways to honor their loved ones, find closure, and support each other during a time of loss. While customs can differ widely from family to family, here are some of the most common ways people in the U.S. honor their loved ones after they pass away.

Here are some key principles and practical tips on how to communicate with someone who knows they are dying in a way that honors their experience and fosters meaningful connection.

For those of us who’ve spent hours squinting at old census records or deciphering cryptic handwriting in musty family Bibles, cemeteries can feel like a breath of fresh air—or at least, less dusty. Imagine the thrill of finding great-great-grandma’s gravestone, with her full name beautifully etched in stone, as opposed to guessing whether that “M. Johnson” in the 1850 census was really Mary or maybe her elusive twin, Martha. And if you’re lucky, her epitaph might give you a little extra, like ‘Beloved wife and champion pie baker.’ Now that’s the kind of family legacy we can all get behind!

Family plots are like one-stop genealogy shops. No digging through a dozen online forums—just a quick stroll, and there’s grandpa, great-aunt Sally, and cousin Joe all in one spot, laid out like a family reunion. Only quieter.

In Texas, a state with rich cultural diversity, funeral rituals reflect various religious, cultural, and traditional practices. However, several funeral customs are particularly common across the state. There has been a lot of press regarding the increase in the non-affiliated but there will always be those who follow deeply held religious beliefs, especially regarding death and the afterlife. We honor them all at Martin Oaks Cemetery & Crematory.

The Kübler-Ross stages of grief provide a foundational lens through which to view loss, but they are by no means the final word on how humans process grief. Over time, new theories and critiques have emerged, highlighting the diversity and complexity of grief in the modern era. Whether we adhere to these stages or adopt newer models, the key lesson is that grief is not a problem to be solved, but an experience to be lived, however it unfolds for each person.

Choosing a certified funeral celebrant in lieu of an unknown religious officiant allows families to create a ceremony that is deeply personal and meaningful, providing comfort and a fitting tribute to their loved one’s life.

We may think our loved ones will have it all figured out when we pass, but do they really? What about the ashes of your grandparents sitting in eternal peace in the closet? Do your grandchildren really want them in their closet when it’s time to sort through your belongings? It may or may not surprise you that, in most cemeteries, ashes can be buried along other ashes or a full casket all in one grave.

Let’s face it, death is a difficult subject for anyone to navigate. It’s hard for children to navigate everyday life never mind the complexities of grief. Children’s understanding of death varies greatly depending on their age, emotional maturity, and prior experiences. Here are some guidelines and strategies to help you approach this sensitive topic in a compassionate and supportive manner.

Natural Organic Reduction (Human Composting) offers a sustainable and eco-friendly alternative to traditional burial and cremation, with numerous environmental and economic benefits. However, its acceptance faces cultural, regulatory, and public perception challenges. In Texas, the path to legalization will depend on legislative action, public support, and industry readiness. As awareness and interest in sustainable practices grow, NOR may become a viable option for Texans seeking a greener way to honor their loved ones.

The summer holidays can be particularly tough for those grieving a loss, but by acknowledging your feelings, honoring your loved one, setting boundaries, and seeking support, you can navigate this challenging season with compassion and care. Remember that it’s okay to find moments of joy amidst your sorrow and that healing is a journey that unfolds in its own time.

Incorporating DEI principles isn't just a moral imperative; it's a strategic advantage. Organizations that prioritize DEI tend to perform better, attract top talent, and resonate more with diverse customer bases. Ultimately, DEI is about creating a culture where everyone can thrive—because when we embrace our differences and work towards equitable outcomes, we all stand to benefit.

There has been a shift in how society approaches infant and fetal loss. Rather than relegating it to the shadows of conversation, many are embracing the importance of remembering and honoring these tiny souls.

The treatment of the deceased is a reflection of deeply held beliefs and traditions. Religion, in particular, plays a pivotal role in shaping these attitudes, guiding rituals, and influencing the way societies honor and remember their departed loved ones. Although there isn't a single global religious group (with one exception) that strictly forbids cremation, there are some religions that traditionally discourage or prohibit it.

John Wesley Hardin's death was only the beginning of the saga surrounding his final resting place. The line between hero and villain is often blurred beyond recognition.

The Swedish art of döstädning or Death Cleaning can free yourself (and your family) of a lifetime of clutter. It’s not as morbid as you would think!

The journey of life expectancy reflects humanity's resilience and capacity for progress. From ancient struggles against disease and adversity to modern triumphs in healthcare and science, our understanding of longevity has evolved dramatically. While the future of life expectancy holds promise, it also presents us with complex challenges to overcome.

While there are no perfect words to ease the pain of loss, expressing sympathy and offering support can make a significant difference.

How do you navigate the depths of grief in your own life?

Five influential American women that have broken barriers but also significantly shaped the landscape of funeral service. Their contributions highlight the diversity and richness of the funeral service profession. As we celebrate their achievements, we recognize the importance of continued support and empowerment for women in this essential and evolving industry.